Thursday, April 2, 2026

Breathing Has Been on My Mind

 


When I was getting ready to leave Ecuador thirty-five years ago, I went to a local hospital for an exit physical which included a chest x-ray.  Soon after, the examining physician called with urgency in his voice telling me I had a “concerning spot” on my lung.  He advised me to get that checked out by competent experts, as soon as possible, which I did.  Back in Minnesota I went to the ultimate in experts – the Mayo Clinic!  After more x-rays, a bronchoscopy and lung biopsy, a room full of Mayo doctors looked at the results and came to the conclusion that I had a “spot of unknown etiology” on my lung.  For the next twenty-five years I gave little thought or attention to the health of my lungs. 

When I recently bought “Breath” the best-selling book by James Nestor at the local Barnes and Nobles, the woman at the counter remarked, “this book is a life changer”!  I have now read it, and it is quite a revelation and has prompted me to wonder about the history of my own lungs and breathing – and why I started having breathing “issues” in the last chapter of my life. 

I am 87 years old, and most of my life I had no breathing problems, BUT according to research reported in this book, I have been breathing wrong most of my life.  You see, and here is a confession, I am a mouth breather – especially while sleeping.  My asthma was only diagnosed by a pulmonologist a couple of years ago and it has been a moderate case.   Asthma has become a global epidemic and nearly 25 million Americans suffer from it – a fourfold increase since 1980 – the leading cause of emergency room visits and missed school days for children.  Why all the asthma, I wonder.

Breathing freely is such a blessing.  For the last dozen or so years I have been using inhalers when needed to control shortness of breath with good effect. This winter was a breathing rough spot for me and a new pulmonologist prescribed an inhaler that contains steroids -   a warning flag for me, and, not covered by insurance, the cost is prohibitive.  But, with my sister’s help, who happened to be in Columbia, she sent me a six month’s supply (6 inhalers) for less than half the cost of what one month would cost here.  Now I am breathing freely but don’t want to be on steroids indefinitely. With no breathing complications now, I keep a regular schedule of pickleball four or five times a week and go on walks without any problem.

The biggest take away from Nestor’s narrative is the emphasize on nose breathing, pointing out research showing that people who switch from mouth to nose breathing can boost oxygen efficiency by as much as 20%.

One of the most fascinating case studies in the book is that of a doctor in the USSR back in the 1950s who discovered the benefit of breathing less and slower.  Dr. Buteyko helped thousands of patients with asthma and other conditions, such as migraines and hypertension, with a method called hypoventilation.  These people all had the same breathing pattern: they breathed too much.  One review of “Breath” by a medical professional stated “The Buteyko method was never taught to me or my colleagues in medical school or residency, despite being around for decades and having Grade B evidence of efficacy”. 

Using Buteyko’s findings, competitive athletes and everyday people are cited as having increased performance, like a cyclist who lowered his heart rate drastically after just a month of focused nose breathing.  Or the Olympic swimming team that was trained with this method and won an all-time record of medals at the Montreal Olympic games. On the pickleball court these days I have been trying to concentrate on nose breathing – I’ll see how that works out.

Nestor includes a variety of breathing techniques and exercises, some of which I have been experimenting.  I particularly am drawn to using 5.5 breathing.   Called coherence breathing, it is when the functions of the heart, circulation and nervous system are coordinated to peak efficiency while using this breathing technique.  Slowly inhale (using your abdomen) 5.5 seconds and exhale slowly for 5.5 seconds – completely expelling the air in the lungs.  I have been practicing it for some minutes every day.  Experiments show that blood pressure lowers and anxiety level are improved.  It turns out that breathing less and slowly is better for us. Interestingly this rate of breathing results in 5.5 breaths a minute.  I’ve tried it and it’s true. 

There are many personal stories, research and historical studies on breathing in this book, and MANY reviews online.  Nestor is a journalist, not a scientist or doctor, so a few medical professional reviewers have taken him to task for writing on the “new science of breathing”.  But the reviews are overwhelmingly positive.  As of 2022 three million copies were sold and it was translated into dozens of languages. 

For practitioners of meditation and contemplative prayer, slow rhythmic breathing is essential.  It works with the classic Christian Prayer of the Heart – inhale 6 seconds, "Jesus Christ, Son of God", - exhale 6 seconds - "Have Mercy on me, a sinner".  The Buddhist mantra Om Mani Padme Hum also fits the six second pattern.  For contemplative prayer, the prayer of silence, I often use slow and full breaths using the word Maranatha. Inhale Mara, exhale Natha, or another sacred word. 

Finely, what about my nighttime mouth breathing? One stand-out tip: tape your mouth shut at night (seriously) if you’re a mouth breather.  According to Nestor, it works, (for some people).  I am working on it, but not there yet.  Judy is a natural nose breather – I envy her.

Thursday, February 19, 2026

How was your Ash Wednesday?

 

 


That’s not a question you will normally hear.  It’s not like “How was your Christmas?” – which everybody celebrates whether they are secular or Christian.  Many may not even take note of Ash Wednesday until reminded when seeing a random person with a smudge on their forehead – “oh yeah, it’s the beginning of Lent”.  Ash Wednesday was yesterday.

The spirit of Ash Wednesday is quiet and solemn. Lent does not have an auspicious beginning – it is to remember that we will all someday return to the earth as dirt or ashes – a reminder of our vulnerability and mortality. 

My day began with an early appointment to get a root canal. The procedure was not overly stressful – until the endodontist said, “Oh Oh - there’s another canal in there – normally a tooth has two and these were treated according to plan, but to find the third (there’s a 1% chance of a tooth having a third) took more grinding and digging around without success.  Don’t worry, he said, there’s another way to get to it, meaning on another day for surgery from the other end with “just a little incision of the gum” – only another $1,000.  

When I got home and started setting out breakfast Judy said “Ash Wednesday is a FAST day” – oh yeah, now I remember.  Lent sort of creeps up on us.  The three disciplines of Lent are Fasting, Prayer, and Alms giving.  I had given some thought to what would be my fast this year – abstention from desserts. 

The thing that went through my mind and prayers throughout the day was taking place in Florida.  But it started for our granddaughter, Leslie and her husband Fil, very early in the morning in Chicago.  They were flying to Florida for a funeral and would come back the same night.  Here’s the story:

Fil comes from a Russian Jewish family; a very large and complicated extended family who mostly settled in Chicago in the ‘90s.  Some of the relatives had migrated to Florida and an unconceivable tragedy struck that family last week.  Larisa, related through marriage to Fil’s family, lived in a condo in Fort Lauderdale with her son Ben, age 18, and daughter Eve, in her early twenties.  An ex-boyfriend, likely estranged and unimaginably angry, came to that apartment last Tuesday and shot Larisa and Ben, killing them both. Eve was not at home.  This killer then drove over two hours to Sarasota where Larisa’s brother, mother and stepfather lived and went into their house, killing them plus a good neighbor who was just checking on them when he heard gun shots.  The shooter then took his own life. 

Leslie and Fil grieved, cried, hugged and consoled many at the funeral for all five of the family yesterday.  Leslie said it was beautiful and necessary to come together.  My prayers were with them from afar.

Last night at our Ash Wednesday worship Pastor Brad said that in this service we were reminded forcefully of the words of the funeral/burial committal service at the death of a loved one: “earth to earth, ashes to ashes, dust to dust”.  The closest parallel in Jewish liturgy is the solemn “Day of Atonement”; waiting to receive, experience and give forgiveness. Ashes are a rich symbol; rooted in ancient customs and practices of grief and sorrow, cleansing and renewal – a symbol of God’s judgement upon sin, a sign of our human frailty and mortality, our humiliations and broken condition, and our need and repentance.

As a Christian I was reminded of the God’s forgiveness daily as we heard it announced at the Lord’s table last night after we received the imposition of ashes.  As these Jewish brothers and sisters grieve and experience deep lamentations and in their own struggles with forgiveness and trying to make some sense of this tragedy, I pray God’s all-encompassing love will surround them now, and in the days to come. 

This was another mass shooting in America, one that was only covered in the local news.  We would not have known about it except for the family connection.  But that horrendous tragedy will remain etched in the minds of many in the extended Velgach family for generations.  Lord, have mercy.

 

 

 

 

 

Sunday, February 1, 2026

We, The Drowned, by Carsten Jensen

 


Here’s another Scandinavian, this time a Danish author, with an epic story spanning a century from 1848 through WWII.  I had recently read Lars Myting’s “Bell in the Lake” trilogy and loved the saga set in a Norwegian village that spanned roughly that same century and I was taken by Myting’s writing.  So, I looked on the internet for something that was considered comparable, and this book by Jensen came up.  “We, The Drowned” is a best seller in Europe.  The translation seems good and very readable.

 The Danish port city of Marstal is the setting of this novel about the sea and men who go to sea and women who stay home and live with the anguish of not knowing if their men will return.  If this 675-page book had been separated into a trilogy the first book would have been early sea faring adventures in sailing ships to exotic places all over the world, the second mostly on land in Marstal where the main characters are from, and the third a gripping story of the heroic merchant marine mostly in the North Atlantic during WWII.  The second – middle – part was a bit slow, but the beginning and end were absorbing, sometimes horrific and tragic stories.   Jensen did his research of the historical reality of Marstal (his hometown) and writes gripping depictions of ships going to the bottom of the sea in storms as well to bombing and torpedoes.  There are many characters to follow, and great descriptions of the life of those who were drawn to go out to the sea.  I have not read many books about the seas – never made it through Moby Dick, though “The Old Man and the Sea” was an easy read, but this book is compared by some of the reviews as a “magnificent addition to the canon of seafaring writing”.

There are numerous reviews online, most enthusiastically endorsing this book, so I won’t write a review here, but personally I would recommend “We, The Drowned”.