One of the great blessings of our lives has been to know and
work with Mennonites, first in Vietnam in the 1960s and later in all the
countries where we lived and worked in Latin America. Many of the Mennonites with whom we worked
became friends and examples to us, witnesses to living gently on the earth,
serving the poor, and, above all, following their conscience as pacifists and
peacemakers.
When we arrived in Saigon in 1966 we were warmly welcomed by
a young Mennonite couple by the name of Paul and Doris Longacre. As I close my eyes now and scan back almost fifty years I see the images of these
two humble and dedicated servants of the Lord - Paul as a wise and good humored
program director of Vietnam Christian Service (a mentor to me) and Doris as the
hostess of the guest house and language center where many of us lived during
our fist weeks in Saigon.
About 8 months ago we got the news from another Mennonite
friend, Earl Martin, that Paul has been dealing with lymphocytic leukemia (CLL) for a number
of years , and after quite a few hospitalizations, Paul had decided not to go
to the hospital again. He is at peace with facing the end of his life and
ready, when the time comes, to enter "the land of the living", as
Jesus referred to heaven.
This news prompted a
world-wide exchange of emails across the miles and years - dozens of us sharing
thoughts and reflections from the transformative experiences that we shared in
Vietnam over the ten year period between 1965 to 1975.
Yesterday I was
looking on the book shelf for something to read and I came across the book
Doris began writing in January 1979 - "Living More with Less" - a
compilation of hundreds of stories, anecdotes, advice, and even games submitted
by Mennonites from all over the world on the subject of living more
simply. She was unable to finish this
book before she died from cancer eleven months later at the age of 39. Paul and a number of friends took up the
challenge of finishing and publishing it the next year.
I have not looked at
this book for 30 years or so but as I paged through it I saw a number of
passages we had underlined and highlighted - on justice, ideas for family life,
living more simply, breast feeding, and lessons learned from the poor of the
world community. There were so many
offerings here - we probably did not read the entire book - but it was the
accumulated thrust of the whole that added bits and pieces to a philosophy of
life that we have tried to adopt over the years - part of which we can
attribute to what we learned from Mennonites.
Doris' first book,
the "More with Less Cookbook" still sits on Judy's book shelf in the
kitchen... tattered and worn from many years of looking into it for good and
creative recipes for preparing nutritious food and ideas on living a healthy
life-style. Certainly there are
thousands of such tattered copies of this book in kitchens around the world.
A few days ago we
received an email message from Paul in response to our annual letter. When we got this Judy said, "what a good
way to live, and what a good way to die"....
Paul wrote:
Thank
you for your New Years Greetings. Greetings and blessings to you. This morning
it was one degree below zero when I woke up. I usually take a short walk in mid
morning around our house with my rolater and one of our church members or
friends to accompany me but today we went to the gym to walk around
the track.
I am
doing fairly well but my strength is slowly failing. I live on one floor of our
house. I have no pain and sleep well. We have a hospice nurse come once a week
to check on me. We have a family friend living in our basement apartment and he
has begun studying in a Master of Arts program on line for his MA in Public
health. I can bang on the floor or yell if I need help when Nancy is not here.
(Daughters)
Cara and Marta and their families visit us occasionally from Pennsylvania.
Tonight and most Tuesday evenings we go to Earl and Pat's house about a mile
from us to eat dinner with them and several other friends. We rotate the
cooking. Other friends from church stop in periodically so I am not bored or
have to spend all my time sleeping or reading.
Love and blessings to you.
Love and blessings to you.
It is
not customary that an intelligent person clothes and cares for one part of the
body and leaves the rest naked. The
intelligent person is solicitous for all his members. Thus, it should be for those who serve the
Lord's church and body. All those born
of God are called into one body and are prepared by love to serve their neighbors.
Menno Simons, 1552 -
early reformer and leader of those who became known as Mennonites.
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